News & Notes
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Paula and her 12-year-old daughter, Fayth, had a hard time of it over the last year as their small family struggled with Paula’s breast cancer diagnosis. Treatment involved removing Paul’s breast. While the good news is that Paula survived the scare, she still has days when she doesn’t feel well because of the chemotherapy.
Those bad days aren’t getting her down, though. “I’m getting my health back!” she said with a big smile. She is even starting to look for a part-time job.
Even so, she’s been referred by her doctors for survivor counseling. The problem is that her car’s battery is on its last legs, and she was told by her mechanic that it won’t make it through the winter. Surviving on social security, Section 8 and food banks, Paula simply doesn’t have the money for the unexpected car repair.”I can’t afford to end up stranded,” she said, worried about the winter, getting to her treatment, and picking up her daughter.
Because of your donations, Friends In Deed was able to help Paula get a new battery and maintenance for her car. Without the worry and stress of unreliable transportation, Paul can continue to get better and the family can get back on their feet.
“I’m very grateful to Friends In Deed!”
Friends In Deed is hosting its annual How-to-Help Seminar on Monday, October 23rd from 7pm to 9pm. It will be held at First Baptist Church of Ypsilanti, 1110 W. Cross Street in Ypsilanti. You can register by email to Office@FriendsindeedMI.org or phone at 734-485-7658.
What is a How-to-Help Seminar?
It is an event that brings together representatives from several Social Service Organizations in Washtenaw County. The presentations include:
- Finding the right resources for those in need
- Housing and homeless issues
- Dealing with difficult people asking for help
- How to spot a scam artist
- Current state resources and programs
The event ends with a Question & Answer session.
See you there!
We lost a very good friend this week: Kathy Wilde, who passed away at home in Ypsilanti.
Kathy came to Friends in Deed nine years ago at the request of a friend, and she has been volunteering for us in several roles ever since. Most recently, she worked on the helpline with Rhonda Wright, providing a caring voice and much needed resources to our clients.
Kathy was a former florist. In fact, she owned and operated Flowers on the Parkway in Ann Arbor. She was also an accomplished archer and loved reading and making jewelry.
Kathy had a big family; she had five children and a score of grandchildren. She also had a special friend in Larry “Fitz” Fitzgerald. She certainly felt like family to many of us here at Friends In Deed, who appreciated her kindness and commitment to help those less fortunate.
Kathy was recently interviewed by an Eastern Michigan Student who was working on a project for Friends In Deed. When asked about what she would like people to know, she said, “Make sure you live your life to the fullest, and make every day special.”
Kathy did live life to the fullest and was an inspiration to all of us. She will be missed.
What you have to understand is how great it is for a kid to get his or her own bed when they’ve been doing without. Thanks to the folks from the Rotary Club of Ann Arbor, two low-income families in Washtenaw County recently received this gift of sleep.
Beds for Kids
Many families with children come to us for help after coming out of a shelter or experiencing fires, floods or bedbug infestations. We also have clients who were victims of domestic abuse and have to relocate with their children. Imagine how difficult getting a good night sleep is for a child who has recently experienced an upheaval due to a disaster or relocation and has to sleep on a couch or on the floor. Now imagine a family with multiple children and too little space to accommodate a twin bed for each child even if they could get them.
Bunk Beds Project
Friends In Deed is the only agency in Washtenaw County that provides beds for free. In keeping with our goal of increasing the number of children in Washtenaw County to get a good night’s sleep, we created a special program to address families with multiple children and limited space. Through the generosity of the Rotary Club of Ann Arbor, we received $5,000 in grant monies for the purchase of bunk beds, as well as a host of volunteers to deliver and assemble them. When all is said and done, 10+ families will receive bunk beds for their children. This allows us to increase the total number of families to receive beds, as well as reduce the amount of time families spend on the waiting list.
Meet Crystal, a home health care worker for six years with a Certified Nursing Assistant diploma. Crystal, twenty-seven, is mom to six-year old Isaiah, who will be entering first grade this fall.
Crystal heard about Friends In Deed (FID) from a friend who referred her to the agency. Initially she came to FID needing a dining room table. She was working part-time and was able to receive the dining room furniture free of charge from the FID Furniture Hotline. A little bit later she also obtained a bed, a night stand and a dresser.
During the course of FID’s acquaintance with Crystal, she obtained her C.N.A. degree to further her education and ability to work full time to provide for herself and Isaiah. Even with her 45-hours-a-week job, Crystal still had trouble meeting a few occasional bills. She requested help with a DTE invoice which FID was able to provide.
In her quest for independence, Crystal was able to pull together a down payment for a car. Once she brought the car home, it became apparent that repairs were needed to keep the automobile running. After negotiations with the dealer, a mechanic and FID, Crystal was able to get the repairs at a reduced rate with a contribution from FID and some money on her part.
In Crystal’s quest for a better life for herself and her son, she was able to partner with FID for furniture, a utility bill and car repair assistance. With the solid foundation of her C.N.A. certification and a full time work schedule, Crystal is able to greet the future with confidence that there is a safety net to protect her family from falling through the cracks or losing momentum due to unforeseen expenses.
As Crystal meets the challenges in her life and works hard at getting ahead, she has hit some bumps along the way. Fortunately she was able stay the course with limited help from FID. When asked “What would you tell someone about FID?” she replied, “FID’s staff goes above and beyond to help.”
Interview and article by Joan Bonderud
Terrie Upham, a student in Eastern Michigan University’s School of Social Work, is finishing up her internship with Friends In Deed next week. While normally we’d be wishing her luck and saying goodbye, Terrie will continue on with us on our Furniture Line as she did for years before she became an intern. She will also be continuing on with her role in our new Circles program. So while we won’t be planning a goodbye party for Terrie, we will be celebrating her accomplishments and recognizing her long-standing friendship – and there will be lunch!
How did we make such a good friend?
Terrie heard about us through her sorority sister, Bekah, who was volunteering at Friends In Deed. We needed a Wednesday volunteer for our Furniture Line; and since Terrie was a social work major, it fit nicely into her life plan. She showed up for her first day a little over three years ago, and she’s been volunteering for us ever since.
What attracted her to Friends In Deed?
“A lot!” Terrie says.
For instance, she likes how Friends In Deed is an interfaith organization. As a Christian, she not only gets to work in a way that aligns with her faith, she gets to see other people and churches do so, too.
Her love for Friends In Deed runs deep. In addition to the religious aspect of the organization, Terrie loves the close knit relationships of the staff and how much is done for the volunteers to bring them closer together. In short, she loves the many happy people she comes across. Whether it is the people who work at Friends In Deed or its many volunteers, “they are all willing to put their best foot forward.”
Besides the people inside the organization, she also enjoys meeting the people who Friends In Deed helps. “When volunteering here, you can really see where the donations are going. You can see the families and people they serve,” Terrie said. She remembered one client in particular who was really helped by Friends In Deed. The client received a full house of furniture, retained their utilities after a threatened shut off, and received school supplies for their children. “That was only one person and they were able to do so much,” Terrie said.
Another quality that Terrie loves about Friends In Deed is how the organization funds its programs. “There is no government interference and a big part of their funding is through special events (Annual Dinner, Golf Outing, etc.),” Terrie said.
A new role:
Now that Terrie’s internship is wrapping up, she will be able to focus on her role with Friends In Deed’s newest program: Circles. It is a program that will help families make connections in the community and learn how to break out of the cycle of poverty. Terrie will be the overseer of the older children, around eleven years and older. She will help explain the lessons that the parents will be learning that day, listen to the children, and try to help with any problems that they may be dealing with. The Circle program may be new, but she is definitely excited about its implementation.
We’re just glad we don’t have to say goodbye. Thanks Terrie!
Interview, Article and Photo by Amtheyst Floyd
Bill Holmes graciously agreed to host another tour of Detroit Metro Airport as a live-auction item at the 2017 Annual Dinner. The tour gave the winners (Pat & Jim Robertson) the chance to take their family for a look behind the scenes at the airport. A good time was had by all. Thanks Bill!
Lisa, an amputee, is a single mom with kids, and she’s been looking for a place to live for a long time. Now that she has one, she realized it would take her almost a year to fill it with basic-needs furniture without the help of Friends In Deed.
“I really appreciate this program. It is really important for a struggling single mom.”
Lisa came to our warehouse to pick up a couch and bedroom furniture, including beds for herself and her 12-year-old daughter.
Jessica is a security officer with two kids, ages 3 and 11. When her rent went up unexpectedly from $192 to $600, her budget took a hit. Things were made worse by the timing because her rent went up after she got paid.
When most of her paycheck went to the rent increase, she didn’t have enough money left to pay her car insurance. “It’s always something,” Jessica said. Without Friends In Deed, “I would not be able to get to work. I can’t drive without insurance.”
“I feel like there is always another way,” Jessica said when facing the problem. Having already weathered a short-term financial setback a few years before through the help of Friends In Deed, she knew right where to go to prevent a short-term financial emergency from becoming a long-term disaster.
When: Thursday, June 1st 7:00 pm
Where: Cultivate Coffee & Tap House, 307 N River St, Ypsilanti, (Depot Town)
Please join us for this informal get-together with a group of enthusiastic volunteers who want to help make a positive impact in the lives of families in Washtenaw County. Enjoy great snacks, meet other Allies and key volunteers, and increase your poverty I.Q. through stimulating conversation with others who care. You will also be able to get your questions answered about the many different ways to volunteer for Circles, and can sign up for Ally training offered in August and September.We look forward getting to know you better at this fun event!
So that we can plan for refreshments, please RSVP to let us know if you can come! Email me at Suzanne@Friendsindeedmi.org or call us at: 734-340-9042
Hope to see you on June 1st!
Live Auction Items:
Over-Night Sailboat Excursion
Enjoy two days and a night sailing around the Lake Erie Islands aboard the 2 banjo 2! Captain Rob Compton is offering an overnight sailing experience aboard his classic 30-foot Catalina sailboat. Relax and enjoy views of sparkling water, Cedar Point roller coasters and picturesque islands or learn some sailing skills yourself. Read more about it.
Fall Weekend in Petoskey
Win a fall getaway at Friends In Deed’s Annual Dinner & Silent Auction. The vacation is a two-night, weekend stay at the Inn at Bay Harbor in Petoskey from October 6 to October 8, 2017. The studio room has a kitchen and living area with a queen wall bed, a fireplace and a balcony. Read more about it. (Value $520).
Guided Tour of the Radar Room and Control Tower at Detroit Metro Airport
The lucky winner (and a guest) will be taken on a tour at the McNamara Terminal and be escorted through, as guide Bill Holmes puts it, the “super secret” entrance to the radar room. The winner will also journey up 20 stories into the control tower, where air traffic controllers will explain and demonstrate their actions as they guide take offs and landings. Read more about it. Note: Ages 15 and Up.
Week Vacation at Charlevoix Condo
The lucky winner (and a guest) will enjoy one week of vacation time at this water-front condo between September 15, 2017 and May 15, 2018 (as agreed between winner and donor/owner).
Four Gardeners for Four Hours
Use of FID Truck for the Day
Framed “Morning Walk” Hand-Made Quilt
$500 Gift Card to Select Auto
Four (4) Tickets to Thunder Over Michigan Air Show
Artwork and Art-Related Classes
Items include framed paintings, photographs and quilts, as well as gift certificates for glass mosaic, painting and other art classes. There is also a gift certificate for personal instruction in watercolor painting: List of creative classes available.
Clothes & Jewelry
Items include earrings, necklaces, scarves, clutches, socks, cocktail dresses and wraps, as well as gift certificates for shoes.
Entertainment & Experiences
Items include tickets to Michigan Theater, Handel’s Messiah (UMS), a Purple Rose Theater performance and Rolling Hills Water Park, as well as a membership at Leslie Nature Center. Other items include a “Jiffy” family tour package, a High Five Pedal Tour and a hot-air balloon ride.
Food & Restaurants
Items include baskets filled with Italian oils, cheese and dinner fixings, as well as boxes of spices and cupcakes. There are also gift certificates for coffee for a year, cheese and dessert trays, local markets and many, many restaurants. See item list.
Items include painted kids chairs, bronze desk lamp, cedar chest, Wakefield table and stacking end tables.
Home & Garden
Items include vases, collectibles, heirloom bulbs, wall organizers, sconces, hand-made quilts, pillow cases, trivets, tools and tchotchkes. There are also several gift certificates available for fertilizer/weed control, gardening help, landscape nursery items, home-decor items, and tool/yard/party rental. List of gift certicates available.
Personal and Spa Services
Items include gift certificates for massages, teeth whitening, salon services, hot-tub soaks, life coaching, and PiYo (Pilates/Yoga) classes, as well as cologne: List of items available.
Recreation and Sport
Items include tickets for the Thunder Over Michigan air show and a season pass to the Toledo Mudhens. Gift certificates are also available for two rock-climbing starter packages, a race-car driving experience and several golf packages. Collectibles at the auction include a basket of NASCAR-branded items, an autographed Red Wing puck, and a Lions football signed by everyone on the 2010 Lions team.
These items don’t fit easily into any one category, but offer a little something different for the silent-auction enthusiast: a singing telegram, lunch out with the Friends In Deed’s executive director, and a picnic basket with wine glasses, lawn blanket and a bottle of wine.
We’d like to thank our good friend, Red Rock Downtown Barbecue, for donating the alcohol for our 2017 Annual Dinner & Silent Auction. The folks at Red Rock are really going above and beyond in supporting our event. Not only are they donating the alcohol, they are providing the glassware and bartender for the evening. Their catering contribution will greatly increase the amount of funds raised at the dinner, as well as the fun times.
Thanks so much!
Thank You United Way!
Jamesa heard about Friends in Deed through a friend of hers who had previously sought out help. Jamesa’s son, 8, had recently gone into remission from leukemia. When her son was diagnosed with leukemia, Jamesa was working at a home improvement store. To take care of her son, she left her job. This caused the family to become homeless and most of their belonging were destroyed. Now that her son has gone into remission, they are working on getting back on their feet. With the help of Friends In Deed, they are creating a comfortable home for themselves.
Dor and Aliza came to the Ypsilanti area from Israel with their three children in search of better employment. Dor works in the aviation industry and Aliza is a school teacher. When they arrived from Israel, they had no furniture and were sleeping on the floor. Through Friends In Deed, they are beginning to make themselves a home.
Bring a friend to Aubree’s Pizzeria in Depot Town for Game Night on Thursday, March 23rd and help us expand our circle of friends!
What? Game Night with Trivia, board games and pool. $5 minimum suggested donation.
Where? Aubree’s Pizzeria in Depot Town @ 39 E. Cross Street, Ypsilanti, MI. 48197
When? Game Night starts at 6:30 PM. Trivia starts at 7 PM sharp!
Why? Friends In Deed is looking to expand its circle of friends, and this is a nice way of meeting new people. Friends In Deed will also receive a donation from Aubree’s equal to 15% of all food purchased at the event. (Be sure to grab a flyer on your way in to submit with your bill.)
We hope you will join us for a fun night of games, prizes, laughs, information & more.
Dine at Aubree’s Pizzeria in Depot Town for lunch, dinner or a snack on Thursday, March 23rd and 15% of your total food bill will go to Friends In Deed.
What? Restaurant Fundraiser
Why? Have a great meal and benefit Friends In Deed
How? Print out the flyer below (or pick one up in the lobby of Aubree’s Depot Town) and present it to your waiter.
We hope you will join us for a nice meal and a great cause!
Faith Williams was homeless and living out of her car for months. She felt hopeless and helpless because no one seemed to want to help or lend a hand. Faith was working simply to keep her car on the road to get back and forth from work.
After months of homelessness, she found out about Avalon housing. Avalon housing was able to provide her with affordable, subsidized housing but did not provide her with furniture. Her Case worker, Greg, referred her to Friends In Deed. Faith was able to get a dresser, dining table, bookcase and chairs for her new home. She came in to pick up her furniture and was amazed at the options she had to choose from.
When asked about some of the challenges she faced, Faith said that overcoming homelessness was a tough battle but she is blessed and thankful for organizations like Friends In Deed that help people in their times of need. “If I were able, I would not think twice about donating to Friends In Deed.”
Article and photo by Esau Davis.
We’ve had a number of student groups volunteer to help out recently, including students from EMU’s VISION Volunteer Center and the Interact Club at Saline High School (shown above). Each group took our truck and picked up and delivered furniture. They also got to meet the families who benefited from receiving the furniture.
We’d like to thank both groups for their help. They did a great job!
The Ann Arbor City Club chose Friends In Deed for its annual Open Your Heart Campaign! The campaign collects items for donation to a local nonprofit. Throughout February in 2017, the club will be collecting bed & crib sheets for Friends In Deed.
We are very grateful that they thought of us. Through their efforts, we will be able to provide sheets along with beds and cribs to our low-income families in need. Like furniture helps make a house a home, a sheet helps make a bed a healthy and comfortable place to sleep.
The Open Your Heart campaign is just one of the many ways the Ann Arbor City Club supports nonprofit organizations in our community. They also provide a cash grant to a nonprofit organization each year, compile gift bags for needy children during the holiday season, knit items for donation to local hospitals, usher at the Ann Arbor Symphony Youth Concerts, and collect school supplies for the Education Project for Homeless Youth.
Thank you Ann Arbor City Club!